Garments may not be rent, shoulders may not be bared, and the mourner's meal may not be served, except by relatives of the deceased. The mourner's meal is only served on a set-up bed.  We may not bring [food] to the house of mourning neither on a tray, nor on a salver, nor in a decorative basket, but only in [plain] baskets.  We do not say the mourner's blessing during [Chol] HaMoed, but we stand in rows and offer consolation. They then dismiss the public.

We do not set down the bier in the street, so as not to encourage eulogies. [The biers] of women are never [set down], out of respect.  Women may sing dirges during [Chol] HaMoed, but may not clap. R' Yishmael says: Those near the bier may clap.