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Nedarim3: 1
אַרְבָּעָה נְדָרִים הִתִּירוּ חֲכָמִים: נִדְרֵי זֵרוּזִין, וְנִדְרֵי הֲבַאי, וְנִדְרֵי שְׁגָגוֹת, וְנִדְרֵי אֹנָסִים. נִדְרֵי זֵרוּזִין כֵּיצַד? הָיָה מוֹכֵר חֵפֶץ, וְאָמַר: ,,קוֹנָם שֶׁאֵינִי פוֹחֵת לְךָ מִן הַסֶּלַע”, וְהַלָּה אוֹמֵר: ,,קוֹנָם שֶׁאֵינִי מוֹסִיף לְךָ עַל הַשֶּׁקֶל” — שְׁנֵיהֶן רוֹצִין בִּשְׁלֹשָׁה דִינָרִין. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן יַעֲקֹב אוֹמֵר: אַף הָרוֹצֶה לְהַדִּיר אֶת חֲבֵרוֹ שֶׁיֹּאכַל אֶצְלוֹ. אוֹמֵר: ,,כָּל נֶדֶר שֶׁאֲנִי עָתִיד לִדּוֹר הוּא בָטֵל”, וּבִלְבַד שֶׁיְּהֵא זָכוּר בִּשְׁעַת הַנֶּדֶר.
The Sages permitted four nedarim: bargaining nedarim, hyperbolic nedarim, unwitting nedarim, and nedarim on conditions unavoidably unfulfilled. What are bargaining nedarim? One was selling an item, and said: “Konam, if I sell to you for less than a sela,” and the other says: “Konam, if I pay you more than a shekel” —- both [persons] are willing at three dinars. R' Eliezer ben Yaakov says: So, too, one who wants to direct a neder at another so that the other person should eat with him. He says: “Any neder that I will make in the future is void.” [This is effective] provided that he remembers at the time of the neder.
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נִדְרֵי הֲבַאי — אָמַר: ,,קוֹנָם אִם לֹא רָאִיתִי בַדֶּרֶךְ הַזֶּה כְּיוֹצְאֵי מִצְרַיִם”, ,,אִם לֹא רָאִיתִי נָחָשׁ כְּקוֹרַת בֵּית הַבַּד”. נִדְרֵי שְׁגָגוֹת — ,,אִם אָכַלְתִּי”, וְ,,אִם שָׁתִיתִי”, וְנִזְכַּר שֶׁאָכַל וְשָׁתָה; ,,שֶׁאֲנִי אוֹכֵל”, וְ,,שֶׁאֲנִי שׁוֹתֶה”, וְשָׁכַח וְאָכַל וְשָׁתָה; אָמַר: ,,קוֹנָם אִשְׁתִּי נֶהֱנֵית לִי שֶׁגָּנְבָה אֶת כִּיסִי”, וְ,,שֶׁהִכְּתָה אֶת בְּנִי”, וְנוֹדַע שֶׁלֹּא הִכַּתּוּ וְנוֹדַע שֶׁלֹּא גְנָבַתּוּ. רָאָה אוֹתָן אוֹכְלִים תְּאֵנִים, וְאָמַר: ,,הֲרֵי עֲלֵיכֶם קָרְבָּן”, וְנִמְצְאוּ אָבִיו וְאֶחָיו, [וְ]הָיוּ עִמָּהֶן אֲחֵרִים — בֵּית שַׁמַּאי אוֹמְרִים: הֵן מֻתָּרִין וּמַה שֶּׁעִמָּהֶן אֲסוּרִין; וּבֵית הִלֵּל אוֹמְרִים: אֵלּוּ וָאֵלּוּ מֻתָּרִין.
[What are] hyperbolic nedarim? [A person] said: “Konam, unless I have seen on this road like those departing from Egypt,” [or] “unless I have seen a snake like a beam of the olive press.” [What are] unwitting nedarim? [A person said:] “If I ate,” or “If I drank,” and he remembers that he ate or drank; “If I eat,” or “If I drink,” and he forgot, and ate or drank; [or a person said:] “Konam my wife benefiting from me, because she stole my purse,” or “she beat my son,” and it was discovered that she had not beaten him, and it was discovered that she had not robbed him. A person saw people eating figs, and he said: “[They are] korban to you,” and it turned out to be his father and his brothers, and there were others with them —- Beis Shammai say: They are permitted, but those with them are forbidden; Beis Hillel, however, say: Both are permitted.
Nedarim3: 3
נִדְרֵי אֹנָסִים — הִדִּירוֹ חֲבֵרוֹ שֶׁיֹּאכַל אֶצְלוֹ, וְחָלָה הוּא, אוֹ שֶׁחָלָה בְנוֹ, אוֹ שֶׁעִכְּבוֹ נָהָר — הֲרֵי אֵלּוּ נִדְרֵי אֹנָסִין.
[What are] nedarim with conditions unavoidably unfulfilled? His friend vowed in order that he eat with him, but he took ill, or his son took ill, or he was held back by a river —- these are nedarim with conditions unavoidably unfulfilled.
Nedarim3: 4
נוֹדְרִין לֶהָרָגִין, וְלֶחָרָמִין, וְלַמּוֹכְסִין שֶׁהִיא תְרוּמָה, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁאֵינָהּ תְּרוּמָה; שֶׁהֵן שֶׁל בֵּית הַמֶּלֶךְ, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁאֵינָן שֶׁל בֵּית הַמֶּלֶךְ. בֵּית שַׁמַּאי אוֹמְרִים: בַּכֹּל נוֹדְרִין, חוּץ מִבִּשְׁבוּעָה; וּבֵית הִלֵּל אוֹמְרִים: אַף בִּשְׁבוּעָה. בֵּית שַׁמַּאי אוֹמְרִים: לֹא יִפְתַּח לוֹ בְנֶדֶר; וּבֵית הִלֵּל אוֹמְרִים: אַף יִפְתַּח לוֹ. בֵּית שַׁמַּאי אוֹמְרִים: בַּמֶּה שֶׁהוּא מַדִּירוֹ; וּבֵית הִלֵּל אוֹמְרִים: אַף בַּמֶּה שֶׁאֵינוֹ מַדִּירוֹ. כֵּיצַד? אָמְרוּ לוֹ: ,,אֱמוֹר: 'קוֹנָם אִשְׁתִּי נֶהֱנֵית לִי' ”, וְאָמַר: ,,קוֹנָם אִשְׁתִּי וּבָנַי נֶהֱנִין לִי” — בֵּית שַׁמַּאי אוֹמְרִים, אִשְׁתּוֹ מֻתֶּרֶת, וּבָנָיו אֲסוּרִין; וּבֵית הִלֵּל אוֹמְרִים: אֵלּוּ וָאֵלּוּ מֻתָּרִין.
One may make a neder for murderers, robbers, or illegal tax collectors that it is terumah, even though it is not terumah; that they belong to the royal house, even though they do not belong to the royal house. Beis Shammai say: One may make any neder, but not an oath; Beis Hillel, however, say: Even an oath. Beis Shammai say: He should not volunteer to make a neder; Beis Hillel, however, say: He may even volunteer. Beis Shammai say: Only what he is forced to vow; Beis Hillel, however, say: Even what he is not forced to vow. How [is this]? They told him: “Say: `Konam, my wife benefiting from me,' ” and he said: “Konam my wife and my children benefiting from me” —- Beis Shammai say: His wife is permitted, but his children are forbidden. Beis Hillel, however, say: Both are permitted.
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